Welcome to a View from the Top

We help individuals and couples gain life-changing perspective that leads to joy, hope, and transformation in their lives and marriages.


We're Tom and Julie Obenchain. After more than 30 years of pursuing personal peace and a joyful, amazing marriage, we want to help you claim the same blessings and benefits in your life and relationships.

We help women claim joy and hope by learning to chase away self-defeating thoughts and by cherishing their identities and bodies.


We help men claim confidence and strength by choosing to be valiant, inspired, and powerful in producing life-changing results.


We help couples understand each other and work through differences before conflict damages their relationship.


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